I had a wonderful “girls day out” with my youngest daughter recently. We started the day at the grocery store — never too thrilling of a time I guess, unless you’re six and there with your mom. I remember my trips to the grocery store with my mom… I remember it being fun and adventurous. When a new Kroger opened up in my town, I went there with her. There was a small door in the front of the store — I remember the scene very vividly… my mother crouching down, pushing the plastic doors to the side, peeking in, and proceeding to walk on through — I followed, assuming this was a bonus feature to the new Kroger… carnival doors. Of course, a few minutes later we realized that the new, small plastic doors were for the bag boys to push the carts through — the real doors were on the side, where we failed to look.
Back to my wonderful “girls day out” day with my youngest… after the store, we decided to go to the movies. I love going to the movies, always have. And this day was no different. We gathered up our popcorn and headed to a good seat right in the middle. We laughed and told jokes and repeatedly said, “…we gotta see that!” after each preview. We put on our 3D glasses when we were instructed to do so and we reached our hands in front of us to grab the objects that appeared so close. We held hands. We let our heads rest on each other. I looked at my daughter next to me — the smile on her face, the wonder in her eyes, and remembered a special movie time I spent with my father.
Star Wars had just come out — I believe I was in the fourth grade. The special effects on this movie were supposed to be unbelievable, and they were. My father and I sat there, watching the action, eating our popcorn, in awe of the happenings on the screen… together. I think everyone who watched that movie at the theatre remembers it with fondness and wonder — movies give us wonder. We wonder if it’s possible to fly a spaceship or fall in love with a stranger or befriend a gorilla. Movies put wonder in us all, no matter how old we get — wonder abounds at the movies.
There’s something about the movies. It’s not even the movie itself — it’s the theatre and the big screen and the mood lighting and the sound surrounding you. It’s sitting next to someone you love and holding hands. It’s resting your head on a shoulder and leaning in for a kiss from your crush. It’s laughter and tears — felt by hundreds at once. It’s singing along to the Time Warp and dressing in character at midnight. It’s hissing the bad guy and applauding at the end. It’s staying for the credits… because that part is just as interesting. It’s sitting in the balcony just to say you did. It’s gathering outside to relive the good parts. Movies are magical and whimsical and even when the movie is forgettable… going to the movies isn’t. There’s just something about the movies.
Now, once again, back to my wonderful “girls day out” with my daughter. The movie ended but the day together didn’t. We continued to hold hands as we left the theatre. We talked about all those funny toys and we cringed when we spoke of the bad guy. I continued to stare at her amazing face — the wonder of it all. And I wonder what stories she’ll tell, what stories she’ll remember and if her stories will include something about the movies — I hope her stories include something about the movies.
Love this, B! I’m sure your daughter will have memories of all the times she gets to spend just the two of you!
My mother, my daughter (Jen was 7) and I went to see Star Wars at the only big screen theater in town the day it came out. Both Jen and I remember it. I took my granddaughter to the movies, just she and I, for the first time shortly after they moved back here when she was almost six. She dressed up and brought a purse and I picked her up from school. We went for ice cream afterward. A special occasion for us both. I took my grandson to a movie, just he and I, when he was seven including dinner at Subway first (his choice.) We laughed all the way back to his house afterward.
I know that memories are often made of special times together doing ordinary things. The best memories, I think.
Thanks for a lovely post that brought so many happy memories to me along the way. Love you! *Big Hugs*
Absolutely Dani — ordinary things that we don’t try to create into these wonderful memories are the ones that get remembered and retold! So true!
Thanks Dani!
It sounds like a perfect day. I am sure she will remember it fondly.
It was really nice to be with her and just be so childish and fun.
Thanks Mary!
Alex will tell a wonderful story of a special day spent with her mother…just like you do of those special memories with your mom and dad. Great story.
BTW, I can just see your mom going through the cart doors…what a laugh!
I can still see her peeking through those 3 foot tall doors!
Thanks Laurette!
What a great day! I think she will remember it, much in the same way you did with your father and my favorite movie of all time. :o) What a great mom you are, I think it’s fantastic you two had a girls day. Something so special about a mother and daughter bonding – thanks for sharing B! #blove
I was thinking of you the whole time I started remembering Star Wars! Seriously!
I loved being with her just as I loved being with my dad at Star Wars!
Here’s a side note: The movie I remember seeing with the mom (I’m sure there was more than one but this one stands out) is Silence of the Lambs! My parents were very different! 🙂
I love your comment above about the memory of the movie, Silence of the Lambs, with your mom. It figures, the therapist trying to figure out the human mind and intent! I have the same issue myself as a school counselor…human nature fascinates me!